Recently, I was reminded of something that happened many years ago in my life, and wanted to share with you the story and why I have been thinking about it.
I have an older sister, and way back when she was engaged to a guy who was in Army Cadets, and the army reserves, he spent a lot of time at our local armeries.
He made the choice to go into the regular Canadian army (please forgive me if the names and exact details aren't 100%. I wasn't 18 at the time, and didn't know all the details too well).
I remember he was sent North about a 3 hour drive to do his basic training. My sister didn't drive, and so basically the entire time he was gone she didn't get to see him. It came time for graduation, and she was so proud of him, but we were talking and I could tell she was visibily sad. We weren't that close when we were younger, but are now.
I asked her what was up, and she said that no one was going to his graduation, so she couldn't go. His Dad and Step-Mother worked on boats, and his lived out West. My family wasn't close to him, so we weren't going either. I had a car and offered to lend it to her, but she didn't feel right taking it.
We decided to make the trip together, and I remember she was very thankful that I would give up my weekend to go with her for this. I couldn't imagine him not having anyone at his graduation. I mean even if we weren't the best of friends, he was still her fiance, and he was risking his life for our country.
We talked all the way up there, about what it might be like, and how excited he was. When we finally got there just in time for the ceremonies, we went into this massive building. It was like an open gym, and there was only about 50-100 chairs on one side, and a big massive expanse on the other side with some red carpet laid down. I remember us discussing how weird it was to have such a massive building for such a small ceremony, clearly with 50-100 chairs there weren't going to be many graduates. WRONG.
They started filing in, and filing in, and fililng in. I remember looking at the huge ranks of soldiers and thinking where are the rest of the people, then it dawned on me. They must make all the soldiers from the area, and reservists who aren't away, come and watch the ceremonies. Wrong again.
All of these guys were graduating and no one showed up. I felt really bad for them. So whenever someone went to graduate and we didn't see anyone taking pics or applauding we did! We made a big deal, and the presenter thought we knew all these guys.....I think we had quite the reputation after that LOL!
At the end of the ceremony, we had a huge crowd around us of all these guys thanking us and telling us how much they appreciated us coming and cheering them on.
My sis went over and had a conversation with her fiance for a few minutes while I waited. A couple of high ranking officers came out looked around and headed to me. I was quite concerned lol. Well they asked me how we knew all these guys, and loved our enthusiasm, and I said oh no no that one over there is ours, we don't know the others. We just felt like they deserved a cheer. They told me they would love us to come to every graduation, as they don't get many people coming.
I didn't know why people wouldn't show up to support there loved one. Whenever I think of that event, I always think of why would no one go? Well I now know why.
I have mentioned General Sarge in tweets and posts before. I even have his shop on my left side bar. DrRus is the official photographer, and handler of General Sarge, and I have known him on twitter for a while. I have watched General Sarge go from a soldiers beloved bear to the spokesbear for a charitable company, and beloved by many.
General Sarge has been Pvt Ben's bear since he was 9 years old, and when he went off to the army, Pvt Ben and DrRus said it would be fun to take a pic of General Sarge every day while Ben was gone. DrRus told our twitter posse about it,and we all told him we wanted to see the pics. From there, General Sarge has grown and grown.
Pvt Ben is getting ready to graduate from Basic Training and his parents really want to be there, however the expense of travelling is very great, and the extra funds are not there. DrRus was talking to recruiters about the situation and they mentioned that this is a common problem (and where I flashed back to that massive room of soldiers, and very few seats).
So what did General Sarge, DrRus and Sandra (the wonderful woman who puts up with all these guys) do? They started a charity that will help as many military families as possible get to graduation. They have several different companies they have partnered with who are also passionate about this cause:
There is
coffee (let's face it most of us mom's can help there, by trying out some yummy coffee!!),
Post Cards, and then there is the Go from
Fluff to Buff program. All of these things go to help the Family First Campaign, getting military families to graduation.
However, this still leaves DrRus, Sandra, and General Sarge short of their goal of making it to Pvt Ben's graduation, which is quickly approaching! If you can donate to this cause please email
Dr Rus Jeffrey and he will tell you the details.